DH/SO ever feel "used"?

[finzel]

At what point did your DH/SO start feeling like a "piece of meat" or a "sperm gun"? What did you do in order to keep BD'ing fresh and exciting, as you continued to TTC?

[pegbaden]

Yep....we had that conversation already! I don't tell him about when the time is to try anymore. Less stress on his part.

[finzel]

LOL!! Peggy, how long was it before you had to "keep mum" about ovulating?

[HollyNSC]

I hear ya just don't tell them...

[pegbaden]

I think by the 3rd month....this will be our 5th month to try. No bringing it up to him! It's soooo much easier that way! LOL :)

[jessicahines]

I agree, my dh is starting to get annoyed because I'm obsessed with TTC. I would just not tell him, but then we wouldn't have sex on my fertile days.

[pegbaden]

I know what you mean Jessica! AF is here again this month......I will be telling him next time around!

[bunkie68]

Bump!

I got to where I didn't tell Kevin, but he knew. My sex drive was never that great, so anytime I was interested for a few days in a row, he knew something was up. :lol: And it did make it a lot harder to keep things interesting.

[peaches312004]

Oh God when i was TTC Poor Randy would say he felt like a piece of meat all the time...LOL , He'd always know when it was that time to try...LOL so i would get to the point where i would try to do romatic things and sexier things so that he would not feel like just a piece of meat!!!